My head is f@cking killing me. I can't sleep, eat or do much. So I went to MySpace to check messages. I had one from an 'I Love New York' cast member. *swoons I had many more from friends. I was going to sign off when I caught a glimpse of a Lacey bulletin. It mentioned the 'Rock of Love' Super Fan episode.

I am feeling exceptionally evil right now. So, I am going to give you my unedited & unsolicited opinion. My mother hasn't died. Actually it's her 67th birthday today. She is most likely in Reno, Nevada gambling my inheritance away as I type.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOMMY!!!

Your Muffin loves you. Now back to my unedited opinion that I am not going to keep to myself. I've been in therapy and prescribed medication. Whatever the reasons, I was f@cking depressed. I am not going to make excuses nor do I feel the need to explain. Call me a crazy b!tch, I don't care.

Yes 51 Minds could've left your explanation in but they didn't. Their decision because Lacey signed the contract, therefore they do what they do... EDIT. Was it shitty for them to edit your explanation out? No. Many of us honestly don't care. (That's what Lifetime, Dr. Phil & Oprah are for!) It was a good solid episode. Many a viewer was entertained. A las production did their job and made at least one person happy, ME. The loss of Lacey's mother didn't move the Super Fans because they still picked 666 a.k.a. Lacey in the bottom two. With all that typed, I am sorry to read about the loss of Lacey's mother. But if I want violins, I'll visit the symphony. Lacey's blog:

September 3, 2007 - Monday

the episode with the "Super fans", and how "real" is reality tv?

Hey Guys!

I often get asked if reality tv is actually "real". The answer is: "yes" and "no". It is not real in the sense that, how often in life would you be put into a situation of: a bunch of girls, forced to live together, and forced to compete for the same man...and forced to live together without TV, internet, books, radio, and not being allowed to leave the house. So of course that is not a "real" setting or scenario, and will obviously lead to events taking place that probably would not occur in real life. However, it WAS real in the sense that nothing was scripted, and for the most part, the producers did not tell us what to say or do, (but they do occasionally encourage us, or "egg us on"). And of course, as I said, I purposely (and obviously) made a big effort to rattle all the other girls. Yes, that "bitch" side of me is very real...however, in "real" life, it RARELY ever comes out. So all of this tells you that reality tv is both "real", and not "real", just depending on which way you want to look at it.

The other thing you have to keep in mind is that the producers can do whatever they want with editing. For the most part, the way Rock Of Love was edited is pretty true to how everything actually went down in the house. They didn't really change things up. But they DID leave quite a bit out. For the most part, I'm pretty happy with the way I'm being portrayed on the show. I WANTED - and set out to be - the dominant, devious, "puppet master" of the house. So the way it was edited is very true to that. However, I have to admit that I was a bit disturbed by one thing that did take place on the "super fans" episode that recently aired. Something very tragic happened in my life not to long ago...my Mother, who was EXTREMELY close with, suddenly passed away. I have always been a very happy person with a positive outlook on life. But when she passed away, it put me into an extreme state of sadness and mourning. Even though I had never taken medication in my life, after she died, I started taking anti-depressants, which helped me immensely with the healing process. On the show, the "super fans" asked me if I was in therapy, and I said "yes". Then they said "are you on medication?", I said "yes". What REALLY happened, was I said "yes, I am taking medication to help me heal from the death of my Mother". One of the "super fan" girls said "I'm so sorry to hear that. I experienced a death in my family too, so I can relate." But of course, they didn't show any of that. Instead, they just showed the girl saying, "Do you take medication", and then cut to me saying "yes", but then they cut out the explanation of WHY I was taking medicine. I have no problems with the producers making me out to be "the crazy one" on the show...that was part of my own plan and my own doing, too. However, to take something so personal to me...the death of my beloved Mother...and use it against me on the show...I thought that was pretty shitty of them. But, at the end of the day, they're just trying to make it a good show...so what can you do. But I did feel the need to write a blog about it...I thought that was something that should be explained to you guys.

Anyway, thanks for continuing to watch the show, and for continuing to show your love to me! You guys rock!!!

Take care,

Lacey

Credit: Lacey

An evil Qmoment!

Yes, people the title says it all. Someone has decided to portray themselves as the one and only Kristia. WTF is the world coming to?! Can't a beautiful, blond babe get some d@mn respect around here? (Not with my old, bitter, ugly, cellulite @ss around...hahahahahaha!)

The Q. believes copying is the greatest form of flattery. For idiots who think they have the patent on the use of y'all; I am referring to something different. (Feels good to finally get that off my chest.) I communicated a tiny bit with Kristia last week. I told half of the Bar-Bee Twins that copying was the greatest form of flattery. If some lonely soul wants to be a beautiful, young, cellutite free bombshell; it's a compliment. Basically someone wishes to receive the attention they wouldn't get otherwise.

I also informed Kristia that I wasn't a fan of the Bar-Bee Twins. I see no reason to be dishonest with the young woman.

The FAKE KRISTIA MYSPACE IS www.myspace.com/kristia_bonita

The REAL KRISTIA MYSPACE IS www.myspace.com/kristiabonita (without the underscore!)

Wow, I put my own haterful bitterness aside and did a good deed. Is this like when Darth Vader saved Luke and destroyed The Emperor? The force is with me.

A yoda Qmoment!

VH1's Rich interviews Rodeo from Rock of Love

VH1's Rich interviews Brandi C from Rock of Love

The male readers of The 'Rock of Love' Blogspot have informed me that I am very unfair to the Bar-Bee Twins. (Unfair...my @ss!) Not wanting to alienate any one's wet dreams, I decided to give the Bar-Bee Twins' fans an update on the muses of many a nasty thought. Kristia a.k.a Bond Girl and Brandi C. are still blue eyed and blond. They are still posing in skimpy outfits too. And they are still as cute as Cock-A-Poo puppies. Oh and the pictures are a Benchwarmers sneak peek. (WTH is Benchwarmers?) Yep, that's the update. *bows "No, no, no...please no!" Genius is not to be applauded.

Man with the Bar-Bee Twins eliminated, I am running out of women to dislike. Oh wait, there is still Lacey and Erin. *thinks super duper hard Oh yeah and there is Barry White *coughs I mean Magdalena.

Y'all don't forget VH-1 is the place to be @9pm Sunday, August 12th. I think 'Rock of Love' episode khamseh (5) is going to be a muddy mess. Basically folks think sexy women pretending to play football in the mud.

A sleepless Qmoment!

Erin is one of the 'Rock of Love' women who irritates me. She simply annoys me for two reasons, her boobs. I don't have a problem whether or not an individual chooses to alter themselves. Your body, your choice, your cash/credit (or his cash/credit)... right? My thoughts on Erin are the following:

Erin may have gotten implants to feel more attractive or sexy. (I am not in her head. I don't know.) She dresses in a manner to show off her purchase. I mean her breasts are always appearing to be on the verge of exploding. And I shiver with fear of a nipple easing out of one of her ensembles. Erin has been filmed saying basically it is okay to use one's sexuality to their advantage. Yet, Erin turns around in judgement of Heather. She stated in the 'Don't Threaten Me with a Good Time' episode, how she pities Heather for flashing her breasts. (Get the f@ck out of here with the hypocrisy!) At least Heather is honest about her current occupation.

Another issue is how does one become Miss Hooters of Illinois with stage fright? Doesn't one have to get up on stage and strut their stuff in a bikini? It just doesn't add up to me. Hey, but 1 huge boob + 1 huge boob = a humongous pair of breasts. One final question, does 'a good girl' pose for a picture (tongue out no less) with a NFL athlete groping her breasts? *wondering

Credit: Aurelius & Jennifer

A boobified Qmoment!

Vanilla Ice has a temper. I loved 'Ice Ice Baby'. 'Surreal Life' has always been hit or miss for me. If I am bored with nothing else to watch, I'll watch a rerun marathon. Aurelius kindly gave me the heads up about a clip including the lovely Heather of 'Rock of Love'. Go to the V-Spot @ http://www.vh1.com/. Go to shows, click 'Surreal Life', then Ice's Greatest Meltdowns and hit play on 'Whore House'.

Credit: Aurelius

A Bhattipimpin Qmoment!

Everyday I look up to the clouds. I think, 'I miss the men of 'I Love New York'. I miss Whiteboy and all his swagger. I miss Onix with his fine @ss self. (Onix, I am currently upset with you by the way. You are a tease.) I am missing Heat. You people just don't understand. Jason's body is non stop hotness. *thinks about taking a cold shower
The Q. is digging deep to discover who was cast in 'I Love New York 2'. Chris D. from VH-1 has been good to me. So, I am going to keep my mouth shut on the things I know for now. I can be a good girl when a man treats me accordingly.

Anyhow I came across this lovely picture of Heat with two 'Rock of Love' beezys Lacey (PETA maniac) and Brandi C. (allegedly retired porn star). I believe they were on the red carpet of a XL magazine event. *thinking Heat better have not given any of my 'Butta Kisses' away. If so, I am telling YA-YA. You think Diva Maria would approve me to be the mother of her firstborn grandchild? *dials Diva Maria to find out.

Credit: PubDistrict.com & Belong

A butta kissed Qmoment!

If you had to choose between dating Samantha or Erin from 'Rock of Love' based off the first two episodes, who would you date?

The writer/bartender Sam (tattoos) or Miss Hooters of Illinois (gummy bear boobs)..... *wonders; Are there really gummy bears implanted in her breasts? (Steups:They both had nose jobs I think)

A Radio Blog interview with 'Rock of Love' beauty Jessica on The ELLE Word. Don't worry folks Gabrielle is returning shortly. I am just filling in during her vacation. Show starts tonight @ 6pm Pacific, 7pm Mountain, 8pm Central & 9pm Eastern. Call in number is (646) 478-5101.

The attractive, sexy Dallas is the last African-American woman left on the 'Rock of Love' mansion (to my knowledge) . She is petite with a killer figure. Her beautiful brown eyes give off a sense of 'I'm naughty but don't f@ck with me'. Dallas has the most gorgeous lips. As a make up artist I would love to get my hands on that face. And I don't know about anyone else's opinion but she is working the hell out of those halter dresses. (I need a size 12 in the skull & cross bones one.)

Dallas is from Houston, Tx. *wonders why Dallas and not Houston as her name? She likes things vibrant because her favorite color is hot pink. She has never had a 'real job'. (A real job in my mind is one that is produces a W-2 or 1099-Misc.) *wonders what it means to Dallas She doesn't eat vegetables. Her favorite food is Italian. Interesting tidbits are Dallas was kidnapped in Japan. And she loves to shove her fist up @sses. (Don't shoot the messenger!)

To sum up Dallas, she has a strong personality. She appears to be straight forward and doesn't p@ssy foot around. You like it or you don't. I don't think Dallas gives a d@mn! The Q. likes it. *wonders if Bret Michaels does? I am looking forward to see how Dallas handles herself in tonight's episode 'Talk Dirty To Me'. It's guaranteed to be a hot episode. Have your channel on VH-1 @9pm to watch 'Rock of Love' episode 2.

A Texan Qmoment!

Is it just The Q. or are Tiffanys taking over the world? I mean the world of reality television. Are these women gold mines to the pockets of fat cats @ VH-1? Are these women similiar in there behavior? First we have 'Flavor of Love', 'I Love New York 2' Tiffany a.k.a. New York self-proclaimed H.B.I.C. Now we have 'Rock of Love' Tiffany who says, "Don't Threaten Me with a Good Time" among other phrases. (I am just too lazy to type up.)

My question to the VH-1 viewer and The Blogspot reader is:

Do you think these women are alike?

How?

A questionable Qmoment!

We see Bret Michaels in the Rockfessional and he says, "Well let's just call this their first 15 minutes, check this out."

A quick camera scan of a hotel and then an attractive blond introducing herself as Pamela. (That hotel room looks very, very familiar.) Pam informs us she is from a suburb of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. "I'll take any opportunity as it comes. And it sounds like so much fun. And this could be ya know potentially life changing. I mean what if we really hit it off and this is it? I mean I'm really outgoing. I like dancing and singing. ...I'll sing in the shower, out of the shower. I am not going to be like beating girls up. But I'll tell ya what we are going to have some problems, if they give me trouble. I've never pushed anyone before. But I might just have to pull their hair. I'm nervous that I'm going to have to go home tomorrow. And I'm gonna have to be, ' Like I'm home now'." (You think Pam went home because 51 Minds had enough singing in the shower from Krazy *coughs I mean Heather *coughs I mean Neveah *laughs Can we talk about premonitions?)

Next scene Big John is dropping the bomb. "I'm afraid to tell you your tour ends here." (He didn't look remotely afraid.) "Your bags are on top of the driveway."

On forward with Jessica who is a kooky blond. (Is kooky the right word?) The V-Spot viewer is treated to a plethora of expressions and poses. "Hi my name is Jessica. I'm from Chicago." She is asked if she ever been told she looks like Jessica Simpson. She says, "Yeah, I think it's funny. Because I don't see it. I don't really see it." (Me neither.) Anyhow, the dumb blond bit is so old and passe. Jessica shares with us that 9 out of 10 dates are boring. She yawns for special effect. The 51 Minds staff asks if she knows any blond jokes. She struggles to think of one. Then she offers to share a funny story instead. It turns out to be an arrest story. Apparently she got pulled over and had a warrant for her arrest. (In all fairness it could've been for an unpaid traffic violation ticket or for solicitation. Who knows?) Jessica had to call her mother for bail money. I believe she needed a $1000. Jessica does an imitation of her mother's reaction to her bail out request with a Southern drawl. "A thousand dollars are you crazy?! Do you know how many tables I had to dance on to get this?" (America is going to hell in a hand basket. And VH-1 it's all your fault!)

Keeping it moving, we see Jes who could very well be poised to remain in my top five. However, she deleted me as a friend on MySpace. I am not taking it personal because hell she doesn't know me. But my 'Rock of Love' fan feelings were a little crushed. I mean we are both licensed cosmetologists. Where is the love, Jes? She is also a bartender. She shares the following, "I am not one of those girls that is looking for a famous person just so I can be the arm candy. Ya know.... he's famous, he's famous...he's not, he's not no big deal. I literally shopped for about like 5 hours. I spent a lot of money. But I only brought one dress, oh and a skirt. A wrap thingy probably won't even wear it. It's too poofy." We also learn she's only gotten to smoke a half a cigarette. By the way, this pink & blond haired beauty is from you guessed it Chicago.

Tawny is the next 'Rock of Love' beauty up. Oh my God, I can't believe it. She isn't blond. Okay, okay she has blond highlights. Variety is the spice of life and I am happy to finally see a brunette. "My name's Tawny. I'm 28. And I'm a waitress. Nothings going on in my personal life, no boyfriend, not sex life, nothing. Like a said earlier to other people, I haven't had sex in months. So I'm a virgin again. I've noticed I've gotten b!tchier from I think lack of sex. And I don't know guys are just so stupid & idiotic. Boys are just toys now. It kind of makes it easier not to give it up when they're just dumb @sses. Like I've known I've gotten drunk. I've hit guys. But I've never hit girls. I liked to be controlled. I like a man to be a man. Ya know I liked to be man handled. Underwear, it's gross not to wear underwear. It is! Any girl's discharge that's gross. You don't want a girl with no underwear on. It's true. You know it." (Nine months isn't that long. I agree lack of sex will make some b!tchier.) *looks in mirror & flips self off

Back to the blonds, we see an implanted one on a bed. "My name is Erin. And I actually live in Chicago now. ...kind of picky, and I am having too much fun to be tied down right now, unless that one right guy comes around. And he hasn't yet. Hopefully I find him here."

51 Minds' staff, "Do you like to be tied down?"

"No. I don't liked to be tied down. I do not. ... Why? I don't like to be tied down. ....oh you... That could mean more than one thing, anyhow. I mean obviously who doesn't enjoy sex? But I definitely use it to my advantage, sexuality. And I do enjoy it. And I don't think there is anything wrong with that." (Oh but it's alright to call Heather a stripper whore when she made the most of her photo shoot with Bret. Hyprocrisy at it's finest.) *laughs out loud

Credit: VH-1's V-Spot

A hofessional Qmoment!

Kelly Munroe was one of the first of the 'Rock of Love' women to return my messages. She is a pleasure to talk on the phone. She's unguarded and extremely pleasant. My only wish is I wanted to see more of her on the 'Rock of Love'. Beggars can't be chosey. I have to watch the 21 women VH-1 wanted me to see. Thank God Kelly doesn't talk remotely like the Barbie Twins a.k.a. Brandi C. & Kristia.

Where were you born and raised?

Chicago, Illinois.

Wow, you are a tough woman surviving all those winters. What's your favorite childhood memory?

Yes, the winters are rough. I've been saving up to move. My favorite childhood memory would be, eating whatever I want. As an adult, I have to watch what I eat to maintain my weight. (I watch what I eat too. Right before I shovel it down my throat, as if it's my last meal.)

Are you a natural blond?

I was born a blond. When I was around 5 or 6 year old, my hair started to get darker. So, I became a brunette.

Do you believe blonds have more fun?

Definitely, blonds have more fun. I've been a brunette and redhead. *laughs Blonds have a lot more fun.

What's your idea of fun?

I enjoy going to clubs and dancing. I am up for most stimulating activities. I like bike rides and long walks.

Do you exercise to maintain your figure?

I'll do sit ups. I am not big on exercise. I'll do pilates but I am not consistent. (She doesn't regularly exercise and can work a red bikini! I should kill this beezy.)

Share with our readers what your experience was like during the 'Rock of Love' casting.

It was fun. I have to say it was my best audition ever. The casting team asked questions that were funny and made you feel so comfortable. I only knew it was a rock star from the 90s. When I saw Bret Michaels I was surprised and happy.

How did you feel when you arrived at the 'Rock of Love' mansion?

I felt good. I also was not feeling my best. I wanted to change my outfit. It's uncomfortabe to know someone may be looking you up and down and you are not feeling your best. First impressions are important.

What did you think when you saw Bret Michaels?

Bret Michaels is so sexy. I was thinking, 'OMG, I want you so bad!' *We both laugh.

Were the other women nice or standoffish?

They seemed very friendly and genuine.

Was there a particular female who was extra friendly?

Heather was really cool. Of course I was there to hopefully connect with the rock star. It would've been also nice to make new friends with some of the women.

When you were asked to stay behind what were you thinking?

I had a bad feeling. My stomach started to turn. You know it was a new experience to me. I didn't want to be singled out so early. I just felt something was not right.

What were you thinking when Big John announced your tour had ended?

I was shocked and hurt. I couldn't believe it. I was already feeling a little insecure. It was just not a good experience. I was happy to see Bret because I've had a crush on him since I was 8 years old. I wish I had an opportunity to see if we had a chemistry, a connection.

Have you watched the 'Rock of Love' sneak peek on VH-1's V-Spot?

Yes. I missed out on the chance to meet a great guy and have lots of fun.

What women are you liking that made it into the 'Rock of Love' mansion?

Heather of course, we sat next to one another. She is really a nice woman. Also I like Cindy a.k.a. Rodeo. She is beautiful. She seems like she's going to be the voice of reason in the 'Rock of Love' mansion.

How do you feel about Tiffany begging her way into the 'Rock of Love' mansion?

It was definitely a smart move. She took a chance and it worked. She's in the house. I would've loved to be in the house. However, I have a different personality and don't see myself doing what she did. I also signed a contract and had concerns.

What's your opinion of her questionable behavior after receiving Big John's mercy?

Wow, he gave her a second chance. She could very well be a nice person. On the show she is a train wreck. Tiffany comes off as obnoxious and rude. I don't know maybe she is behaving in that manner for shock value. If I had gotten a second chance I'd be on my best behavior. *laughs Maybe that's why I went home. I was too boring for reality television.

Do you wish you had knocked on the door and begged for entrance into the mansion?

Kind of, I have mixed emotions. That's a hard question. I've could've tried harder to stay but I didn't think I had an option.

How do you pay your bills?

Trade shows, promotional, runway and print modeling pays a lot of my bills. I am also a receptionist part time.

What are your future goals and dreams?

Professionally, I would love to pursue acting. I am also considering going to college and majoring in Fashion Merchandising. Personally I'd like to meet my soul mate. *giggles And have my fairy tale wedding.

Tell me what you would want in a soul mate.

Of course I want a man who shares my sense of humor. A guy who can make me laugh. He would have to be goal oriented. He'd have to have the ability to maintain his own lifestyle and a car. Definitely a guy who is down to earth and not full of himself. I would like him to appreciate and respect me. (D@mn, appreciation and respect ... how lovely!)

Well Kelly we are done, anything else you want the readers to know?

Well I was highly disappointed not making it into the house. I imagine it wasn't meant to be for me this time. I am alright and moving forward. VH-1 could've done things differently. However, if they had, I would've never made it on the first episode. So with that said, I am thankful to VH-1 and 51 Minds for giving me a chance. The good far outweighed the bad. Everyone keep on watching 'Rock of Love'. I know I will be watching to see all of the good times and drama I missed out on. *We both laugh.

A refreshing Qmoment!

The Kelly interview is postponed to a date to be announced. More details to follow

Tonight, Kelly, who was booted in the parking lot on Rock of Love will take questions and calls on Gabrielle's Show.
Show starts at 7:00pm EST (4:00pm PST)

Later tonight at 9:00pm EST, Jessica from Rock of Love will call the Jeff and Steve Show to take your calls, hopefully.

And, I apologize to Damien for the late announcement but I completely forgot his show today with Trends began at 11am PST and not EST -check it out please.

Click here for an interview with Kelly (Rock of Love) at 7:00pm EST

(join us now in the chat-room)

VH1's V-Spot allowed viewers to check out the Premier of 'The Rock of Love' a few days early. I decided to check it out to see if it was worth a chance because I had already ruled it out. (I won't ruin the show by telling those who haven't seen it, all the details. I'll leave the recap for Quanda). But I deem 'The Rock of Love' a WINNER in my book.

As we saw on 'Flavor of Love Season 2', their are only a certain amount of beds for the women chosen to come in the house. Rock Of Love was no different, which led to 1 "young" lady in the house being sent home early. This "young" lady
was named TIFFANY, and she reminded me of another Tiffany that we all know of (but I'll explain that part later).

Tiffany is from Chicago and she refused to go home early because she didn't get a chance to even see the inside of the house. She pleaded her case to 'Big John' (The Equivalent to 'Big Rick' on FOL) and he allowed her to come into the house.

After getting into the house alot of the women wondered how she got in but 'Hey it was nothing they could do'. So they got acquainted with bar (Of Course) and so did Tiffany. I'm assuming that Tiffany got a hold to what Monique refers to as 'That Dark Liquor' and after drinking that 'dark liquor' Tiffany did a 'Toastee' on her first day but only 100 times better.

She got into it with the majority of the females in the house and when she was threatened to fight her reaction was "DON'T THREATEN ME WITH A GOOD TIME." She Also followed Bret Michaels around his backyard while he tried to socialize with the girls and she kept sitting on his lap, causing Bret to find Big John. After Big John confronted Tiffany that he would put her out, she replied with, "don't threaten me with a good time." (Throughout this show I couldn't help but think about New York and how she never gives up on finding her man just like Tiffany wouldn't give up on fighting for her man. These girls just don't give up)

If you get a chance, go to the V Spot and check out The Rock of Love or just watch the premier tonight. I changed my mind about not watching it because I can't wait to interview these girls on The Elle Word. I will say that just like with Charm School I have chosen my winner on the first day. I choose RODEO as my winner for the Rock of Love. (I was wrong about Larissa, so lets see how this plays out ;) )

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'Rock of Love' may very well be the best way to attempt to win Bret Michaels' heart. (Frankly, I don't know another way to do it. Well one could sit outside his home and follow him around. And wait for Big John to go to the restroom.) However, I don't know if it's paying the electric or cell phone bill. So the women of 'Rock of Love' are still working to put food on the table.

Miss Kelly Munroe will be earning a paycheck at a Nascar Event. Crown Royal is a vendor at the event. You guessed it; she's one of their Crown Royal girls. You'll find the tall, blond, blue-eyed beauty at the Crown Royal booth from 8:45am - 5pm. Joliet, IL seems like a nice place to visit tomorrow July 15th. I hear you may even get a taste of something goooooood!

An alcoholic Qmoment!

Geezus, I am constipated beyond belief. Life is rough when one is full of sh!t. Life is really rough if you love someone who is full of even more sh!t. The Q. really needs to work on being less miserable and bitter. (At least I smell good. In spite of having a personality that stinks.)The Q. is so behind on introducing the ladies of 'Rock of Love'. I use that term ladies so very loosely. (Don't I?) No worries, I ain't a lady either. Anyhow there is a purpose to this post and her name is Lacey. Lacey is a self described Rocker Chick a.k.a. musician. Lacey is a vocalist for the rock group Nocturne. I am thinking the name has meaning. But basically, I am sexually frustrated at the moment. And that equals I am not looking up Nocturne in the dictionary to see if it's a word with a valid definition. I will just assume it's a variation of nocturnal. The band must like darkness, bats or owls, hell if I know. I will type; I dibble and dabble (my all time favorite Chance phrase) with a little rock here and there. I enjoy A Perfect Circle, Jimi Hendrix, Aerosmith, Lenny Kravitz, Rolling Stones, David Bowie, Tool, The Mars Volta and some other bands. I was pleasantly surprised when I listened to Nocturne's 'Alibi' and 'I Lie'. I really like the music of 'Alibi'. Lacey's vocals were very good on 'I Lie'.

Music is a passion of Lacey's. However, animal rights, human rights and our environment are equal passions. New Dawn Pet Rescue is Lacey's baby. She rescues abused, neglected animals from Los Angeles area pounds who are about to be euthanized. She nurses their injuries and spirits until they are ready for a loving, nurturing home. Lacey is also known to hold a protest sign up every now and then.

Towards some people, Lacey can be very competitive and cutthroat. (Oh yeah 'Rock of Love' is going to be a hot mess.) Towards others Lacey can be very soft, nurturing, the girl 'you can count on'. She is a very strong and passionate woman. At the same time, she's a big party girl who loves to go out and have some crazy fun. Is it me or was Bret Michaels in pure heaven during the taping of 'Rock of Love'?

An animal rights Qmoment!

So far, Jane is the only one admitting that she is excited about the premiere of VH-1's 'Rock of Love'. Of course you all know I am excited beyond belief. I think 'Rock of Love' is going to be the highlight of my weekend. (Yes, I live a boring and dull life.) Never the less, I still have impeccable tastes when it comes to reality TV shows. *sighs

Heather from the V-Spot sneak peek is definitely positioned to be one of my favorites. Did she really say she was a tomboy?

A Qmoment because I am feeling the 'Rock of Love'!

Where do I begin? How do I write an introduction about a woman who encompasses so many incredible qualities? There is a saying; to each his own. And I realize I don't know Bret Michaels or his tastes. However, if he didn't give the final V.I.P. pass to Cindy 'Rodeo' Steedle. I honestly think he missed out on one hell of a woman. The Q. is infamous for being biased. I like who I like, sue me.

I first noticed Rodeo on the 'Rock of Love' casting episodes on V-Spot. Miss Steedle had me cracking up with talk of vibrators and multiple orgasms. Instantly you knew she was funny and vivacious. Through the Internet and AT&T, Rodeo has been most generous in allowing me to get a glimpse of who she is as a woman.

At 39, Rodeo is the oldest woman vying for Bret Michaels' heart on 'Rock of Love.' During the taping of 'Rock of Love' Miss Steedle had cancer. I asked Cindy if Mr. Michaels knew of her condition. "I never said a word because it was his time to shine and not worry about me. I wanted him to get to know the real Cindy that cared for him, his kids, family, band, friends and his ROCKIN' FANS!" At the end of taping, Cindy underwent surgery to remove the cancer. She in 100 % cancer free at this time. However, that was not her first battle with cancer. I learned this woman with a heart of gold had been paralyzed. (WTF... once paralyzed and now her body has been in countless fitness magazines. I am truly a miserable lazy cow.) We talked briefly about her time in the 'Rock of Love' mansion and her experience. Her answer, "No matter what, I am a fighter. I never let anything stand in my way of my dreams. I want to show people around the world that if you believe in yourself; dreams do come true no matter what happens in your life. You just have to believe in yourself and your dreams will come true in the end. I can't give up now. Not when God gave me a chance to walk out of a wheel chair and live through 11 years of cervical cancer to fight to live again. NOTHING will hold me down Quanda.....NOTHING.... "

A southern belle, Rodeo is big on giving back. Thanksgiving is a time of being thankful for the blessings in our lives. Cindy participates with her church in feeding those less fortunate. Every X-mas she purchases gifts and wraps them. Her and her son deliver them to needy and/or hospitalized children. Cindy wants the VH-1 viewer and future 'Rock of Love' fans to know that she truly cares about others. However, don't think she will take any shit off of anyone. When ask what message she would like to pass on the 'Rock of Love' Blogspot reader, she said, "I will always try to make everyone feel loved whether its a stranger on the street or a loved one. Everyone is equal because everyone puts their pants on the same way. I do everyday. We're all the SAME, living and learning each day. We are all God's creations. Don't miss the premiere of 'Rock of Love' on July 15th. You are going to be entertained. Keep it Rockin' on."

A southern rockin' Qmoment!

Well some of the 'Rock of Love' women have taken a cue from an 'I Love New York' cast member. I believe the beautiful Onix was the first to have a viewing party in a bar. (I sure miss Onix.) He was yummy to look at. Was he not 'The Blogspot' Ladies?

Well if you are in the Chicago area and have an interest in meeting a 'Rock of Love' beauty or 4, I say, "Hang out @ Solo 1530 located on State Street."

A promoting Qmoment!